Let’s spend some time looking at the world of the Entrepreneur, something people tell me that I am one, though I just thought that “I” was just me and that’s it. This is prompted by an email passed on to me from a friend who got an email from someone who found considerable time to complain that most of the people he meets in our local Entrepreneurial Group talk about the act of being an entrepreneur but in fact never have been one. The point was how could they comment without having succeeded as being one (having skins on the wall was his analogy). Let me offer a couple of thoughts about this –
One form of human endeavor is entrepreneurship, (entrepreneur: (Merriam-Webster) one who organizes, manages, and assumes the risks of a business or enterprise). Most folks equate this definition with owning you own business or being your own boss. This is not always the case as will see later when I blog on the entrepreneur inside the enterprise.
There are 10s of thousands of people with an opinion on the entrepreneurial process. In fact case-studies and the like can make you pretty darn good at the organize and management nature of the definition above. There can be merit in listening to their observations and codifications to build out this aspect of the definition.
But the magic word here is ‘Risk”. With this word we transition from the world of logic to the world of emotion. So there are two aspects to entrepreneurial experience, the doing and the risking. Here is my response to him:
“Dear Sir.
Your observation about not hearing from people who have skins on the wall is in error. I, and the gentleman who sent me this mail of yours, live in skins lined huts out here on the Plain of Life, and so by your definitions are competent to talk to you. So Grasshopper, take a moment and read.
Clearly this entrepreneurial thing is a two-stage operation. My recommendation is that you have Stage One down pretty solid for when you get to Stage Two you will need to have the reactive skills of Stage One. All these talkers you complain about are working Stage One, which is good. Not clear? I like stores so let me offer one.
This weekend the Austin Yacht Club had a sailing race up to Turn Back Canyon on Lake Travis. My Son and I raced our boat up. As we pass Pace Bend Park there are some cliffs over the water. At the top of the cliffs are about 50 people; every so often one guy jumps off and all the rest make a lot of noise. Most people are there because they secretly would like to be the jumper, but only 3 or 4 actually step out into free space and take the risk, and thus achieve the reward (crowd approval, personal satisfaction, experience, and the Thwap (my Son’s definition, the sound your testicles hitting the top of the inside of your skull as they violently contract in abject terror only to spring back by the sudden elation of knowing you did it and are still alive and well)). Eventually, someone who has wanted to but has never jumped is driven enough to take the risk and so steps off the cliff. They are a different person when they climb out of the water and never quite fit back into the crowd at the top of the cliff.
All those folks at the top of the cliff are like those people you are complaining about in the Austin Entrepreneurial Community. They have done everything but stepped off the cliff, they have done everything but taken the risk and started a business. They want to, they are learning the drill, and they are gaining on it, but they cannot yet jump. Those people at the top of the cliff, those Entrepreneurial want-a-be’s, are probably better at organizing and managing than I am. I respect them for those difficult to obtain and implement skills, I need them for my projects. All of those folks are working hard on getting up the nerve and conditions to jump, to go out and get a skin. At some point passion will overcome caution and they will risk it all to win. And what they win is the transition in their souls. I will then call them true Homo Sapiens because I believe that when you take that decision you mind changes and you start down a new path to wisdom. I respect everyone on that path and feel personal sorrow for those that fall besides the trail.
Your problem is that you are looking for someone to show you the magic way. They already have, but your mind is numb with fear, you just don’t have the ‘huevos’ to step off the cliff yet, so instead of looking inside for the answer you are spending energy and time blaming them. Yet you still come again and again to meetings and complain, and look for a messiah to show you the way.
All entrepreneurs’ communities are like that. It is a special filter and there are gradients of humanity, each at a different stage, each trying to become ‘whole man’. So stop bitching, learn all you can, and then make your mind up to jump. It is about you, not them. From someone who has jumped a lot I can tell you that you stink of fear and fear makes your mind numb. You can’t jump with a numb mind, you can only fall off and thus fail.
Now go do something, start a business, get off your royal rear-end and join our club, but please stop bitching about those who have not jumped, it’s their journey, not yours.
I lift a glass to your future, Barry”
Copyright Barry W Thornton 2008, all rights reserved.